My better self speaking to you;its worthwhile..

A couple of weeks ago,I have been going through some transitions in life. I realised we take so much time getting concerned about issues that are not worth our time,and forget the most important things we would consider for a greater life.This post is motivated by what’s been happening to the people I’ve listened to.This is all I have to say to anyone out there going through a certain phase of life.You’ve overcome your fears before.

This isn’t the first time you’ve gotten nervous. There have been plenty of other moments when you could have let your fear get the best of you but you managed to overcome it. Take care of yourself.

Self love comes before anyone,As refreshing as it is to see a generous soul like yours, it’s time to start taking the energy you usually pour into other people and directing it inwards. It’s time to stop placing your own name so low on your list of priorities. The same happiness that you have been desperate to give to your loved ones is happiness you deserve as well. You deserve to smile when you see the person staring back at you in the mirror. You deserve to feel as beautiful on the outside as you do on the inside and you’re not selfish by putting yourself before anyone. it’s a way to soothe your mind and body, to nourish your skin, and to grow your confidence. When you practice self-care, you’re admitting you’re worth the effort. You’re admitting you care about yourself and your future. You’re admitting you matter.

Your heart is stronger than you think. You’ve been thrown off by this heartache because you didn’t see it coming. You didn’t have time to prepare for it. That’s why it might take you a long time to deal with the shock, to get over your ex, to heal from your heartache. But don’t get it twisted. You are going to heal. Your heart isn’t weak. It’s more durable than you realize. One day soon, you’ll feel better again.

Don’t let your heartache confuse you. Love is a beautiful thing. Don’t let your heartache turn you into a skeptic who believes happiness is a lie. Despite the dark side of love you’ve seen, relationships are not all bad. Love is a wonderful thing when you’re with the right person. You just have to find that person.That person will definitely come. Someone who will love you and treat you like you deserve to be treated .Hang in there,it might take time before you get them but it’ll be worth he time.

Overcome the fear within before you lost out on important opportunities life has for you. Fear is going to keep you away from happiness. Yes, love is scary, love is a risk, but you can’t refuse to put yourself out there because of what could go wrong. You have to focus on what could go right. Or better yet, focus on the moment. Focus on the good happening,live the moment,life is worth happiness.

Procrastination isn’t your friend. There’s a difference between being patient and straight up procrastinating. One is healthy. The other is dangerous. You can’t keep putting off something you want out of fear or the opportunity might pass you by. You have to make a move. You have to chase after what you want. You have to push your fear aside and take that risk.History doesn’t have to repeat itself. it’s natural for you to worry about what has happened to you before.But you’ve learned from your mistakes. You’ve grown from your experiences. You know better moving forward. You know what red flags look like and you know what you deserve. As long as you keep your standards high, there’s a good chance history isn’t going to repeat itself in the way you’ve been dreading.We outgrow everything,

And finally,stop running away from your most authentic self. Stop assuming you have to act like someone you’re not in order to seem mysterious enough, fun enough, attractive enough. The real you is better than any mask you place over yourself. The real you is beautiful and worth evrything good in its entirety.